Category Archives: Spirituality

Prayers and Poems Sunday: The Bhagavad-Gita on Action

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“What is action? What inaction?– here even the wise are perplexed. I will then expound to thee that action knowing which thou shalt be saved from evil.”

 

“Who sees inaction in action and action in inaction, he is enlightened among men. He is a yogi. He has done all he needs to do.”

 

“Therefore,” Sri Krishna says, “the doubt in your heart, born of ignorance, destroy it with the sword of knowledge and take up yoga–karma yoga–and get ready.”

 

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quotes from the Bhagavad-Gita, translated and with commentary by Gandhi/image: artist unknown (if you know the source please contact me so I can credit properly).

 

Prayers and Poems Sunday: Prayer by Chief Seattle

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Teach your children

what we have taught our children–

that the earth is our mother.

Whatever befalls the earth

befalls the sons and daughters of the earth.

If men spit upon the ground,

they spit upon themselves.

 

This we know.

The earth does not belong to us;

we belong to the earth.

This we know.

All things are connected

like the blood which unites one family

All things are connected.

 

Whatever befalls the earth

befalls the sons and daughters of the earth.

We did not weave the web of life;

We are merely a strand in it.

Whatever we do to the web,

we do to ourselves.

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Only known photograph of Chief Seattle taken in 1864

How to Make Homemade Florida Water

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Florida is Spanish for “flower” so florida water basically means flower water.

The company Lanman and Murray has been making a commercial version of Florida Water since the 19th century. There are hundreds of recipes for florida water and it is used in all kinds of spiritual activities-from cleansing, blessing, and protecting, to offerings for the ancestors, to healing and removing negativity.

I make my own Florida Water and each batch is slightly different because I use whatever aromatic flowers and herbs are available at the time. Florida water is quite commonly made with alcohol-which adds to its cooling effect.

 

Below are two recipes that Momma Hen and I recently worked with to create our Spring/Summer batches of Florida Water:

 

Momma Hen’s Rose-a-licious Florida Water:

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3-4 bottles of a commercial Florida water of your choice

3 cups roses (we prefer strongly scented antique roses and have over 200 varieties to choose from in our gardens)

3 cups Jasmine flowers

3 cups aromatic greens like mint, lemon balm, lemon verbena, basil, Mexican mint marigold, thyme)

3 cinnamon sticks

You can use fresh flowers and plants for this recipe. Combine all ingredients together on the new moon and allow to sit for a full lunation. Strain out plant material, add any essential oils you like,  then bottle, spritz, sprinkle, and go to town!

 

A recipe for Florida Water than involves cooking:

Florida Water Spring 2013This is a recipe that I created and involved cooking the ingredients on low either at the stove or crockpot.

5 cups of Vodka

9 cinnamon sticks

18 all-spice berries

one orange peel (preferably dried)

3 cups rose petals (fresh or dried)

3 cups Jasmine flowers (fresh to get the scent)

three bay leaves

1/2 cup dried angelica root

1 cup aromatic green herbs

Add dried ingredients and cook for about 10 minutes on low. Be careful inhaling the fumes–at this point it will be very Vodka-y. Then add fresh flowers and greens. Cook for 30-45 minutes on low/med-low or even longer. Stir occasionally and then sniff test. You want the botanicals to start outweighing the vodka in your sniff test.

Take off stove, cool, and add any essential oils you like! Bottle, spritz, and sprinkle away!

 

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And while we were at it-we decided to make homemade rosewater! Usually rosewater is clear and is actually rose hydrosol (the fragrant water created during the process of extracting essential oils from plants and flowers), but there are old recipes for making rosewater using roses (of course) and alcohol (we worked with vodka).

The result is a beautiful dusky rose liquid that smells HEAVENLY. Rosewater is used in blessing work and in love drawing rites.

Sacred Waters and Washes have been used throughout time and are especially loved in climates where its hot for much of the year-nothing cools you down like a quick spray-but if the spray smells good and its magical even better!

Its my hope that with a few recipes you can now experiment making your own flower waters. But if you don’t have the time or inclination, I do have a few extras from our day in the kitchen for sale. You can find them here.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Prayers and Poems Sunday: On Ceremony

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“I’m thinking of how the elaborate ritual of one wolf greeting another is called a ceremony. Its ceremony we want a share of.” –Linda Hogan, Dwellings

 

“Everything is ceremony in the wild garden of childhood.” –Pablo Neruda

 

“The modern habit of doing ceremonial things unceremoniously is no proof of humility; rather it proves the offender’s inability to forget himself in the rite, and his readiness to spoil for every one else the proper pleasure of ritual.” –C.S. Lewis

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Art: “Sentinel” by the ever so talented Pixie Campell, used with permission from the artist

Many Branches: Talking to Angels with Amy Oscar

My longtime readers know that I am typically the kind of gal who rolls her eyes when someone describes themselves as an angel talker or light worker-not because I don’t believe that those abilities are real-but because I do and I think many people take advantage of the terms. How refreshing it was then for me to “meet” with Amy Oscar and feel into her wise and profound perspective on both the celestial and terrestrial realms.  Amy truly is a light worker-she is grounded and full of gleaming wisdom and sharp discernment. Her mission is service pure and simple and I know that she herself is an angel incarnate for so many men and women-I count myself among them and I count myself blessed by her presence and devotion.

 

Portrait of Amy OscarIn her own words: It is been my honor to have guided hundreds of women (and men) through The Soul Caller Training  – a five-week paradigm shift from stress, fear and suffering to ease, beauty and love. Read their comments here. My books, Sea of Miracles and, My Guardian Angel,  co-authored with Doreen Virtue, invite you into my story , and your direct, personal relationship with the Divine. I hope that you’ll join me on Twitter for #SoulCall, a free, open and trending!  Sunday morning conversation about living a spiritual life in a material world. Sundays at 10 am/ET

 

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1.) One of the terms you use to describe yourself is a Soul Caller-would you share with us what a Soul Caller is? What she does?

A Soul Caller is a human being who lives in awakened relationship with the divine and with the world. She (or he) is aware that her thoughts are energy and that this energy has an impact on her life and on the world around her.

She feels, senses and knows that she exists in a living and flexible ‘call and response relationship’ with the universe; on a living planet that seems (that is) designed to respond to her. When she is fully in the flow of this, she has the direct experience of this response. Her prayers are answered – in delightful and surprising ways. Her needs are met, her thirsts quenched. She feels safe and supported.

However. Every Soul Caller I’ve ever met has experienced, first, a deep sense of loss and disorientation. A kind of pre-awakening in which she (or he) realizes that the world is not what it seems, what it seemed only days earlier. There is often a sudden sense of being shaken awake – where she feels as if she’s lifted up above her own story and is able to see herself going through the motions, through a kind of dance of patterns, which no longer makes sense.

She says things like: “I no longer fit here,” or “I feel like a stranger to myself.” She says, “I suddenly realized that I no longer wanted to do this work (or be in this relationship (or this church or this town)).

This disorientation is coupled with a fierce certainty. She says things like, “I don’t know where I’m going but it’s not this – not here. Not anymore.”

As the illusions peel away, she may experience feelings of deep sadness, a kind of grief for the world itself, she may feel stuck and then suddenly, incredibly free – as alternating currents of energy begin coursing through her life. She arrives in my classroom not knowing what she wants, asking: Who am I? while also, on a deeper level, the answer to her own question is emerging.

My work is to help her to hear what is bubbling up, what is calling. My work is to midwife what has already begun.

 

2.) One of the parts of your work that really comes through for me is the communication you have with, and guidance you receive from Angels-can you talk a little more about this aspect of your work, when did you first start communicating with angels and how has their message transformed your life?

Well, actually, the angels started communicating with me! In 2004, while working as a magazine editor, I was asked to launch a new column featuring readers’ stories of real life encounters with angels. I was delighted by the project – though at the time, I didn’t believe in angels.

Looking back now, I laugh. The angels drafted me – and almost immediately, they made their presence known. They’d leave a feather on my keyboard, send a vivid dream or somehow, arrange an encounter with just the person I needed to meet. They guided me to choices that shifted every part of my life – from my health and weight, to my marriage and work.

Now that I’m aware of the angels, it’s clear that I’d been communicating with them all of my life. I just didn’t call them angels. My family wasn’t religious – my dad was a social worker/psychotherapist, my mom was a poet and painter – they wouldn’t have talked about the things I was experiencing in that way.

Yet ever since I was a little child, I had a strong sense that I was guided – that we all were. I’d lie in bed talking out loud to the presence that I sensed was listening with affection and interest to what I had to say.

As I got older and began to fill notebook after notebook with feelings (and boy did I have feelings!!) and ideas (big ones!) and stories, I sensed this same presence still there, still listening. i dreamed in technicolor – vivid and elaborate imagery with set changes and wise teachers showing up to tell me things. I lived embedded in nature, in my mother’s lush one-acre garden, and in summer camp, where my dad was the director, where I’d spend all day talking with the trees and animals and even, the rocks and the clear water of the lake.

When I got older, that presence was always with me. When I took foolish risks in high school and college. And later, when I longed to be a mother, guiding me strongly – through dreams and synchronicity and very strong clairsentience – to the doctors (and the psychic) that would help us conceive our son and then our daughter.

This presence was always there – and I was never confused about it – it wasn’t an imaginary friend and it wasn’t just my own intuition. This was a responsive, engaged someone. No one taught me to engage with it – I seemed to arrive knowing that when I lost something – a school book or set of keys – all I had t odo was ask out loud, “Please bring it back to me,” and I’d feel a kind of inner tug which would lead me straight to my lost item. Later, after college, when a friend let me play with her tarot cards, something I’d never heard of before, I simply ‘knew’ how to use them.

This never seemed unusual to me. What struck me as strange was when people couldn’t do this. And I began to see that I could help them. And when I did, they’d learn quickly and easily.

Because EVERYONE can talk with this presence, which some people know as angels, and others, like me, know and perceive as a shimmering non-physical support system, Everyone.

In fact, you’re already interacting with it all the time. It’s just so much a part of our nature, a built in and organic part of being human that we don’t notice we’re doing it.

Even those with no sense of God or any other spiritual entity will reach out to this something, this someone, when strong emotion overcomes them.

I believe the heart is born connected to this something and that the heart knows senses that it’s there.

 

3.) One of the quotes on your site is…”You can change. Everything can change.” I think this is so refreshing in a sea of–it’s not going to ever change, he won’t change, you can’t change-how does change figure into the work you do with groups and individuals?

We are constantly changing – as are all things. Even the stones are changing – they are doing it very slowly, so we don’t notice it. But over time, as weather wears stone to sand or pressure compresses it to crystal – all things are constantly flowing into and out of form.

That said, sometimes people just feel stuck. Completely. Profoundly. Stuck. But even then, as they become more and more uncomfortable with that stuckness, things are shifting. The discomfort itself is a shift – from boredom, from inertia, into suffering. And from suffering, we always reach for relief. The more uncomfortable we get – with the boring job, the stale relationship, the unhealthy lifestyle – the more we start looking for something else.

Discomfort is guidance – it calls us to shift toward something new, something more.

No one is stuck beyond change. Even my father, 86 years old, confined to a wheelchair and able to move only one hand, changes. Every time I see him, he talks about what’s new; he tells me what he’s thinking about. He says, “There’s always something interesting going on,” he tells me. “There is always hope. You can’t give up.”

 

4.) One of your offerings is the Soul Caller Training-can you tell us a little about this, where the idea came from and what the program entails?

The Soul Caller Training is the result of my own 30-year journey as a workshop junkie, systems analyst, magazine editor and more recently, spiritual counselor. The program arrived as I woke from a dream about two years ago – it was a complete ‘download’  – composed of mental imagery and streams of words which I scribbled down, as if taking dictation.

Since then, it’s evolved quite a bit but the basic program is there. It’s a five week, online training (plus a lifetime membership in our Soul Caller Circle, after graduation). It’s designed to shift your perception of the world and your place in it. No one comes away unchanged. Once you see the truth and beauty of who you are – and what the world is, you can never go back.

 

5) If you could give one piece of wisdom to my readers today, what would it be?

Find the place inside of your own heart that knows what is right and what is wrong. The part of you that simply knows – without effort or mental gymnastics – what it feels like when you are centered, safe, whole, engaged and alive. That’s the compass. Align to it. Let it guide you. It’s your inner star – your connection to the divine and to everything that matters to you. Another, simpler way of saying this is: choose toward love – no matter what There is always a choice toward love – including the choice to love yourself.

 

Who are your people?

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Two of My People

The title of this article comes from a colloquialism those who have lived in the Deep South will be familiar with; it is used to determine first and foremost one’s place in the world. For example, when I got married the grandmother of one of my oldest and dearest friends was at the wedding. This stately woman had been born and raised and lived her entire life in East Texas-definitely the Deep South-and was concerned about my spouse. She had heard tell that he was from Pennsylvania, The NORTH, a yankee. So, a bit before the wedding she pulled me aside and said, “yes, he’s very handsome and polite, but who are his people?

 

For those who do not live in the South and don’t have friends who do or did I know how this can sound, it can sound prejudiced in the extreme-but it isn’t. She was simply trying to put my soon to be husband within a context that made sense to her and what is interesting is that she did this by inquiring not about his living family but about his ancestors-those who had been long dead but whose loves, losses, successes, and victories made up his lineage.

 

When I explained that in his case his people were from South Carolina and Georgia there was a sigh of relief–she now had a context for the man I was about to pledge myself to. In knowing “his people” she knew him-even though they had not had much conversation with one another there was an intimate knowing because she knew his history. There are entire cultures that are known to do this-Scotts are notorious upon meeting a fellow countryman to search and seek out through the annals of family history until they find a relative that they have in common or at the very least two relatives who knew each other.

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another one of my people

We are bombarded with advice to figure out this and determine that for ourselves-by ourselves-with no one but ourselves as an authority. This is taxing and I feel that it misses a vital part of our story-which is told by those who came before us. “Your people” tell you where you come from-and if the power of inference is not completely lost on you-they can also tell you where you are going.

 

Your people provide clues about your talents, your mojo, your gifts, and your challenges.

 

Your people do not completely determine you-but they are the warp and weft against which you act-their ambitions, heart breaks, skills, dramas, talents, decisions, and traditions have resulted in at least one concrete being-you. They are your heritage.

 

Your people are like the religion of your birth-the faith traditions your grew up practicing-as you age you will no doubt find fault with these traditions and you may even leave it completely, but its there on a bone deep level-you know it and as far as you may run, you will never full outrun it.

 

This is the blessing and curse of lineage. It is one side of the self-knowledge coin and its why ancestors are honored, celebrated, and most importantly have their stories told-because through knowing them we come to know ourselves.

 

If you know who your people are then you have access to a part of yourself, to what Twyla Tharp calls “your creative DNA”, that is entirely and completely unique to you and your ancestors. If you feel bound by your family and have always wanted to escape them then I will tell you its even more essential to discover who your people are and to listen to their stories-they are your stories too-to tell, to re-tell, or to change up completely.

 

Its Memorial Day. A day when I will be at the graveyard honoring some of my people by cleaning up their graves, leaving flowers, and offerings and talking with them awhile-telling them how they are missed, telling them how they are remembered.

 

My petition for you today? Remember who your people are.

 

 

 

Prayers and Poems Sunday: The Gospel of John 7:24-29

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24 Judge not according to the appearance, but judge righteous judgment.
25 Then said some of them of Jerusalem, Is not this he, whom they seek to kill?
26 But, lo, he speaketh boldly, and they say nothing unto him. Do the rulers know indeed that this is the very Christ?
27 Howbeit we know this man whence he is: but when Christ cometh, no man knoweth whence he is.
28  Then cried Jesus in the temple as he taught, saying, Ye both know me, and ye know whence I am: and I am not come of myself, but he that sent me is true, whom ye know not.
29 But I know him: for I am from him, and he hath sent me.

Working Between the Worlds-3 ideas and 3 questions to get radically clear on reputation woes

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When I talk to men and women working (or considering working) in the Sacred Arts field there is one fear that I almost always hear about early on…damaging or losing one’s reputation. It takes a lot of cojones y ovarios to come out and advertise yourself as a tarot reader, Reiki healer, energy worker, crystal reader, or spell caster.

For so many people this is a huge pain point-not to mention a huge block in building a business based around services and offerings that they feel called and inspired to provide. The conundrum is easy to understand: how do I do the work I feel called to do and talk about myself when it involves me telling people that I’m into this or I’m practicing that?

  • My mother will disown me.
  • My father will be embarrassed.
  • My friends will wonder what the hell happened-they thought I was NORMAL.

 

Oh boy have I been there.

When the doors were opening and the universe was rushing me down a particularly strange and overgrown path I realized that at some point I had traded in my ideal work costume of a three piece suit and good heels for a velvet shawl, crystal ball and glitter-lots of glitter. I was not at all sure how I felt about this change in direction-but I was sure that I was doing work that was actually making a positive difference in people’s lives and allowed me to be of service-and afterall, wasn’t that what I had always wanted?

 

Longtime readers might expect me to simply say that when it comes to reputation you have to get over it and proceed full steam ahead-but I actually think that this area is so heavy that that kind of advice actually falls flat. Instead I present you with three insights to help you gain clarity on and around your fears followed by three questions designed to assist you in determining if now is the right time to come out of the broom closet:

 

When fears around your reputation loom large and you see the words WOO WOO tattooed across your forehead (in blue woad of course) remember these salient points:

1.) Its not a stupid thing to be worried about. Because you know, for a long, long time those of us working in the Sacred Arts were considered con men (and women) at best and were burned at the stake as witches at worst. We have a lineage and some heavy stuff has gone down in that lineage.

2.) You are NOT your reputation. Reputation is something that other people assume about you-its built on what other people say about you-at the end of the day babe you cannot make everyone like you and you certainly cannot control what other people think about you. This works both ways-people can LOVE you and you can have a great reputation-but if your work is lacking your work is still lacking.

3.) Your work matters; what you call yourself doesn’t (much). Yeah, its important to be able to describe what you do for people in a way that is coherent and makes sense. However, what really matters is the actual work you are doing and not what you call yourself. If calling yourself a tarot reader feels to charged for whatever reason try on something else that can fit more nicely-like “intuitive counselor” or “spiritual reader”. (See question #3 below for more on this…)

 

Not sure even after mulling over those little jewels if its the right time to come out of the (broom, tarot, energy healing, crystal, magical) closet? Ask yourself these three questions:

 

1.) Am I ready to be seen? (Compliments of my compadre Fabeku Fatunmise) This is a pretty self-explanatory question but if say, you still work a rather buttoned up corporate job and you do your angel readings on the side you may not want to change your facebook profile to “angel reader” just yet…ask yourself seriously, are you ready to be seen? Is it time?

 

2.) Do I have a supportive community in place? So your mom may not know you love divination-but what about your BFF, your tarot teacher, or your fellow seekers? Do they know? You most likely have a handful of people around you that are already supporting you-call on them in times of doubt. If you do not have anyone who knows about your work then I advise that you start small-tell a few people you really trust who will get it and then build from there. Baby steps y’all.

 

3.) Am I using the right words? For Shakespeare a rose by any other name was still a rose-but he was SHAKESPEARE. You are not. Me either. Sometimes fear around reputation has much more to do with what we are calling ourselves rather than what we are putting out there. If the words are not matching the work then play with them until they do (or hire a kick ass copywriter) so that you describe yourself in a way that makes you feel proud+potent.

 

And…remember what Mr. Lincoln had to say about reputation:

Character is like a tree and reputation like a shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.

 

At the end of the day its about you, the REAL you. That’s what people want to see anyway-so let your light shine! The ones who love you, who are really there for you, are ALREADY cheering you on.

Prayers and Poems Sunday: Psalm 19

Young stars in the Small Magellanic Cloud (SMC), one of the closest galaxies to our Milky Way.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

1 The heavens declare the glory of God; and the firmament sheweth his handywork.
2 Day unto day uttereth speech, and night unto night sheweth knowledge.
3 There is no speech nor language, where their voice is not heard.
4 Their line is gone out through all the earth, and their words to the end of the world. In them hath he set a tabernacle for the sun,
5 Which is as a bridegroom coming out of his chamber, and rejoiceth as a strong man to run a race.
6 His going forth is from the end of the heaven, and his circuit unto the ends of it: and there is nothing hid from the heat thereof.
7 The law of the LORD is perfect, converting the soul: the testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple.
8 The statutes of the LORD are right, rejoicing the heart: the commandment of the LORD is pure, enlightening the eyes.
9 The fear of the LORD is clean, enduring for ever: the judgments of the LORD are true and righteous altogether.
10 More to be desired are they than gold, yea, than much fine gold: sweeter also than honey and the honeycomb.
11 Moreover by them is thy servant warned: and in keeping of them there is great reward.
12 Who can understand his errors? cleanse thou me from secret faults.
13 Keep back thy servant also from presumptuous sins; let them not have dominion over me: then shall I be upright, and I shall be innocent from the great transgression.
14 Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my strength, and my redeemer.

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Image: Young stars in the Small Magellanic Cloud (SMC), one of the closest galaxies to our Milky Way.  provided by NASA

Encounters with AIRR: Conjureman Ali

Conjureman Ali is one of the better known members of AIRR because in addition to his work as a root doctor he also co-hosts the weekly Lucky Mojo Curio Company Radio Show on blogtalk radio. Sought out for his powerful approach to solving life’s difficult problems as well as his erudite knowledge of many aspects of magic and the occult, Conjureman Ali practices the traditional arts with style and integrity!
In his own words:
I am a conjure man who was raised in the Virginian tradition of conjure and hoodoo. I have a background in spiritual work from a very young age, being the heir of my family’s spiritual tradition  and learning even as a child how to read omens, interpret dreams, and call upon the powers of the spirits to guide life. I consider myself a traditional conjure man and root doctor working in a fashion that honors my teachers. I also work as a djinn conjurer and Tata Quimbanda, both immensely powerful sacred arts that are rare and little-known here in the United States. I am a firm believer in working these traditions side-by-side rather than mingling them, that each retain its beauty and power. I’ve been a professional spiritual worker for many years and offer spellcasting services and reading services.
imagesWhat is your philosophy on magic and root work? 
My philosophy on magic and rootwork is ultimately very practical. I believe that the world of spirit and matter are not meant to oppose one another and that any dichotomy is ultimately a fallacy.  Therefore the natural state of man and the natural state of spiritual enlightenment does not necessarily mean that one must live a material life of lacking. Magic therefore is a spiritual art that allows the the world of spirit and matter to be brought in harmony. Used as a proper tool it can be called upon to address the circumstances of life, or to use a metaphor; act as the means by which to guide a ship through dark waters, or to calm the storms that threaten the ship.

What are your favorite types of cases and why?
 
I am considered a gifted individual and so I am skilled in many different types of cases and so find myself enjoying a myriad of situations which call upon magic. However I find that I enjoy works of repairing relationships, reconciliation, love drawing, and protection the most. I am also a firm believer of justice and so will fight earnestly and fiercely on behalf of clients who are oppressed by enemies be the magical or not.
 
If you could give prospective clients one piece of advice, what would it be?
 
Patience is the key to success. Many people jump into this work too fast or let themselves become consumed by anxiety. In order to change the world around you to reflect your desires you have to have the willpower to do so and that does not come from impatience or anxiety. It comes from an attitude of such calm assurance that reality has no choice, but to bend to match your desires.